Is it right to use perfume?
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The holy incense is made to God’s recipe; anyone who makes the like “to smell thereto” is to be cut off.
And the Lord said unto Moses, Take unto thee sweet spices, stacte, and onycha, and galbanum; these sweet spices with pure frankincense: of each shall there be a like weight: And thou shalt make it a perfume, a confection after the art of the apothecary, tempered together, pure and holy: And thou shalt beat some of it very small, and put of it before the testimony in the tabernacle of the congregation, where I will meet with thee: it shall be unto you most holy. And as for the perfume which thou shalt make, ye shall not make to yourselves according to the composition thereof: it shall be unto thee holy for the Lord. Whosoever shall make like unto that, to smell thereto, shall even be cut off from his people.
“Ointment and perfume rejoice the heart”, and so does a friend’s hearty counsel.
Ointment and perfume rejoice the heart: so doth the sweetness of a man’s friend by hearty counsel.
The adulteress tells the young man she has perfumed her bed with myrrh, aloes and cinnamon.
I have perfumed my bed with myrrh, aloes, and cinnamon. Come, let us take our fill of love until the morning: let us solace ourselves with loves.
Mary anoints the feet of Jesus with costly spikenard, the house is filled with its scent, and Jesus defends her.
Then took Mary a pound of ointment of spikenard, very costly, and anointed the feet of Jesus, and wiped his feet with her hair: and the house was filled with the odour of the ointment. Then saith one of his disciples, Judas Iscariot, Simon’s son, which should betray him, Why was not this ointment sold for three hundred pence, and given to the poor? This he said, not that he cared for the poor; but because he was a thief, and had the bag, and bare what was put therein. Then said Jesus, Let her alone: against the day of my burying hath she kept this.
The objection
Exodus threatens to cut off anyone who makes the tabernacle’s perfume for himself, Proverbs puts perfume in the bed of an adulteress, and Isaiah warns the proud women of Jerusalem that “instead of sweet smell there shall be stink”. Yet Proverbs also says that “Ointment and perfume rejoice the heart”, and Jesus defended Mary when she poured costly ointment on his feet. Is perfume good or bad?
The answer
Exodus 30 does not forbid perfume in general. It forbids copying one blend, the holy incense, made of stacte, onycha, galbanum and frankincense in equal weights and burned before the Lord in the tabernacle (30:34-36). That recipe was “holy for the Lord”, and no one was to make it “to smell thereto” for his own pleasure (30:37-38). The holy anointing oil had the same rule (30:31-33). What God set apart for his worship was not to become an ordinary household scent. Gill explains the ban as making it ‘for their own use, for the scenting of their rooms’. Other perfumes are not in view; the incense itself was made “after the art of the apothecary” (30:35), a perfumer’s trade that Israel plainly had.
The other warnings are about what perfume was used for. In Proverbs 7 the scented bed is part of an adulteress’s seduction (7:17-18); the sin is adultery, not myrrh. In Isaiah 3 God judges the pride of Jerusalem’s women, who walked “with stretched forth necks and wanton eyes” (3:16), and their perfumes are among the luxuries that would be taken from them (3:24). In Isaiah 57:9 perfumes are gifts carried to a pagan king or god, Molech in the BSB. Good things can be made to serve pride, lust or idolatry.
Elsewhere Scripture speaks of perfume with approval. “Ointment and perfume rejoice the heart” (Proverbs 27:9). Esther’s preparation, “six months with oil of myrrh, and six months with sweet odours” (Esther 2:12), is told without blame, and when a sinful woman anointed Jesus’ feet he took it as a sign of her love (Luke 7:37-38, 47). The bridegroom’s ointments are praised in the Song of Songs (1:3), and Jesus told those who fast to “anoint thine head” (Matthew 6:17). When Mary anointed his feet, so that “the house was filled with the odour of the ointment” (John 12:3), he answered her critics, “Let her alone” (12:7). The Bible’s teaching is consistent: perfume is a gift to be enjoyed, the sacred incense belonged to God alone, and no gift is to be used for sin.
From the classic commentators
ye shall not make to yourselves according to the composition thereof; that is, for their own use, for the scenting of their rooms, or to snuff up, or smell to, as in the next verse: it shall be unto thee holy for the Lord; separated entirely for his service, to be burned upon his altar, and to be no otherwise used.John Gill, Exposition of the Bible: Exodus 30 (1746–1763), at Bible Hub